Ready to pop the question, but not sure you’ll get the yes you want? Here are a few simple signs that will let you know your partner is ready for marriage.

When you’re ready to pop the question there’s not a whole lot that can get in your way. Of course, you may not feel as confident about your decision if you’re not quite sure if the person you want to spend the rest of your life is ready to take the relationship to the next level. There are a few signs that can tip you off to the fact that it’s time to make your move.

They’re Ready to Move In

Getting married may mean a big change in living situation for both of you. This can mean a lot of financial changes as well as lifestyle changes. So, before you take to one knee, you may want to talk about your financial situation as well as theirs. You’ll also need to consider how you’re both used to living opposed to how you will live when you’re married. If they’re not on board with the changes then it’s probably not the right time to ask. Of course, if they seems to spend more time at your place, or maybe even live with you already, then you can check this off your list!

Say Goodbye to Old Flames

One of the biggest problems with many new relationships is the ex may still be lingering somewhere in their heart. If they’re still not over someone that came along before you, then they need more time to let this person go so they can fully appreciate and love you. The same can be said for you too. Don’t propose thinking that the ring is going to make another person disappear entirely. It may help short term, but in the long run you need to allow the feelings to disappear on their own before you make long-term (maybe lifelong) decisions.

The End of the Games

A lot of couples go through phases where they seem to break up and get back together over and over again. This isn’t a good way to start anything that’s going to be permanent. Sure, when you first start out in a relationship there may be some arguing and adjustments you both make to get comfortable with one another. By the time you’re ready to propose this period should be over with. If you’re both at peace in the relationship and you’re stable then proposing could be a good step for your relationship.

Shared Values

Many couples dive into a relationship without discussing some of the major founding values that they believe in. This can be problematic if you get married without making sure your feelings on these issues are totally clear. For instance, you may want kids and they may not. There are some things you can’t compromise about, no matter how much you love someone. If you do both want to have children then you may also want to discuss parenting styles and lifestyles just to make sure you’re on the same page.

The Power of Conversation

Chances are the two of you have talked about marriage at some point in the relationship. This could play a vital role in knowing whether or not you should propose. Usually at the beginning of a relationship you get to know whether or not the person even wants to get married. If they don’t, then proposing might not be the best idea, but don’t feel bad, this doesn’t mean they aren’t willing to spend the rest of their life with you. As you progress in your relationship you may have talked about what it would be like to be married or things they’d planned to have at their wedding. Generally speaking, if you’ve had this conversation it could be one of the best signs she is ready for marriage.

Timing Is Everything

You don’t want to pop the question when your special someone isn’t at their best. Grief, stress and frustration can lead a person to make a rash decision without giving it a well thought out answer. So, you don’t want them to give you an emotional yes when the answer may have otherwise been a no. This can totally ruin a relationship. So, wait for any stress to pass and then prepare your stunning proposal.

Someone who is ready to accept a proposal might be giving off a number of signs, but these 6 will help you make sure you’re picking the right time. Proposing can be stressful, so don’t forget to keep a look out for the signs before you pop the question. With any luck, you’ll get the response you want!