Writing Love Letters | Simple Tips For Scribing Your Heart

Rekindle the love in your life! Writing love letters isn’t just for Valentine’s Day, it’s a great way to kick things up all year round.

Not too long ago, people used to communicate their feelings and desires via paper and it was amazing. However, since the rise of this internet fad, a lot of people don’t bother with the good old fashioned pen to paper method. If you’re one of these people, you may want to reconsider. Many studies suggest that writing love letters isn’t just good for your mind, but will also make your special someone feel adored.

Love letters are truly an art and some may even last longer on this planet than you do. Unfortunately, with technology as the backbone of most of our communication, the technique of writing love letters is pretty much lost for many. Don’t worry though, I’ve got all the tips you need from beginning to end.

Beginnings

Love letter writing isn’t all about the tools.

Adding a ribbon is a great touch!

Starting your love letter may be the hardest part. With a blank piece of paper staring back at you, it may be hard to form the words you want to say to the person you love. The best thing you can do is take a deep breath and begin the letter with how you’d talk to them.

For instance, start it out with a pet name you commonly use (babe, sweetheart, snookums—whatever floats your boat), or a title (my love, my dearest spouse, my soul mate). Sure, you may not see this in many love letters of yesteryear, but whoever said you had to stick to old school rules?

Of course, if the recipient enjoys the love letter of yore, simply brush up on some old writing and have a go. Try checking out some Shakespearean love letters or other inspiring writers and see what you can come up with from there!

The Body

Love Envelope

Seal the envelope with a heart.

A lot of people seem to get lost in the body of their letters, but when it comes to love letters there’s a great format that can get you through anything. That is, keep it to the past, present and future.

You should start with memories of your early relationship and exciting times you’ve shared. Make sure to keep it detailed and express how elated you were to have your special someone with you.

Once you’ve mastered your past, talk about your present. This may be a bit harder for some as our feelings of the present may not be as emotionally fluid as those of the past. So, take some time and analyze your life and relationship.

Finally, dream about your future together. This can be the most imaginative and romantic part of the letter if you want it to be. Make sure to include your goals for the relationship as well as things you hope to see and do together.

You should also consider the recipients hopes and dreams too because nothing is more romantic than reading a letter and realizing your significant other doesn’t just listen to your ramblings on the future, but also includes them in their future planning.

Endings

Much like beginnings, endings are short and sweet. Try very hard not to slip in words like Sincerely, or Best Regards when you’re ending the love letter, unless you spice them up a bit (Sincerely Yours and so on).

You don’t have to over think endings at all, so don’t get worked up over this portion of the letter. If you want to go mushy then commit (all that Shakespearean research should come in handy), but if you’re more of the strong silent type then keep it simple like, Forever Yours.

Must Haves

I love you in blocks

Write it however you can!

Writing love letters isn’t all about structure, so you’re not finished simply by following the simple format. You should keep in mind a few things before you finish off the letter.

For starters, you need to hone in on the small details. The color of their hair, eyes, clothes. Names of restaurants and distinct smells. The weather. You name it, if you remember it, then key it into the letter. This will show that your memories together really stuck with you which will bring a big smile to your special someone.

You should also have a purpose for writing. May it be you just wanted to say “I love you,” or you want to compliment your loved one on something they’ve recently done. Whatever the reason is, be open about it. Make sure you add in lots of compliments, but don’t go over the top.

Openness is another crucial point for the letter. You don’t want to give your special someone something bland or confusing. Don’t hide your feelings, especially if you don’t often communicate them verbally. Instead, think of things you’d like to say but don’t and go from there. You may be surprised by how much you’ve kept to yourself.

Delivery

You don’t have to slap a stamp on it to get it to your partner, but it does add a special charm. Try to be creative with your delivery. Hide the letter in places you know they will find it (on the pillow, in their lunch, or in a book/newspaper). Sometimes, the surprise may even make the letter feel even more sincere, especially when you use your personal knowledge to make the delivery exciting.

Writing love letters may be difficult at first, but once you get through your first and see your partner’s reaction it may be one of your favorite ways to show how you feel. By the time you’ve written a few you may be well on your way to your own style. You may even get a few back, which is always a confidence booster!

 

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